When you need this

Your little brother graduates. A coworker finally gets the promotion. You run your first ten-kilometer race or cook a meal for twelve people without a single disaster. Pride is the warm feeling of "that went well, and it mattered," and English gives you ways to say it about others and about yourself.

Pride about other people is the simple part. "I'm so proud of you" is common, strong and always welcome, from parents, friends and even managers. "You should be proud of yourself" pushes the feeling back to them, which is a lovely thing to say.

Pride about yourself is trickier in many cultures, including in English. People soften it: "I'm pretty proud of myself," "I'm not going to lie, I'm kind of proud." The softeners show you're happy without showing off. And when a friend is too modest, you'll hear "Give yourself some credit" or "Don't be so modest." Those lines mean "you're allowed to feel good about this."

Phrases

strong, warm praise for someone's achievement

you want them to feel good about it

softened pride about your own success

you're about to admit something honestly

it's important and worth celebrating

the success came from effort

surprised and happy about your success

don't make your success sound small

don't hide how good you were

calm pride about a result

a moment that makes a parent very proud

a formal but warm line for a big success

Say it out loud

Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.

Practice · 3 min

Say the proud line that fits. Situation on the left, one natural line on the right.

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Say it today

Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.