Everyday Conversations · Sad, In Love, Scared & Proud
Feeling proud
“I'm not going to lie, I'm pretty proud of myself today.”
B1 · Intermediate10 minPhrases
When you need this
Your little brother graduates. A coworker finally gets the promotion. You run your first ten-kilometer race or cook a meal for twelve people without a single disaster. Pride is the warm feeling of "that went well, and it mattered," and English gives you ways to say it about others and about yourself.
Pride about other people is the simple part. "I'm so proud of you" is common, strong and always welcome, from parents, friends and even managers. "You should be proud of yourself" pushes the feeling back to them, which is a lovely thing to say.
Pride about yourself is trickier in many cultures, including in English. People soften it: "I'm pretty proud of myself," "I'm not going to lie, I'm kind of proud." The softeners show you're happy without showing off. And when a friend is too modest, you'll hear "Give yourself some credit" or "Don't be so modest." Those lines mean "you're allowed to feel good about this."
Phrases
strong, warm praise for someone's achievement
you want them to feel good about it
softened pride about your own success
you're about to admit something honestly
it's important and worth celebrating
the success came from effort
surprised and happy about your success
don't make your success sound small
don't hide how good you were
calm pride about a result
a moment that makes a parent very proud
a formal but warm line for a big success
Say it out loud
Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.
Practice · 3 min
Say the proud line that fits. Situation on the left, one natural line on the right.
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Say it today
Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.