The moment
It's game night at Arjun's apartment in Bangalore. There's a bowl of popcorn, a box of plastic chips, and one last hand between Arjun and his friend Amelia. Amelia is sure she has won, but she has read one of her cards wrong. Listen for how she realizes it, and for how both of them keep things friendly.
The conversation
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
- Arjun
- Amelia
Words to know
it's your turn to act
show me your cards
wait a moment, something isn't right
you were completely sure, but you were wrong
a kind thing to say when someone almost wins
Check yourself
Practice · 3 min
Round one: repeat every line. Round two: mute Amelia and say her lines, moving from confident to surprised to good-humored. Round three: mute Arjun and practice being a kind winner. Then use "I could have sworn" today about something small you were wrong about.
- ArjunOK, that's the river. It's just the two of us now. Your move.
- AmeliaI'll raise. Actually, I'm going all in. Everything I've got.
- ArjunAll in? You've been quiet all night. That makes me nervous.
- AmeliaWell, are you going to call, or are you going to fold?
- ArjunI'll call. Let's see what you've got.
- AmeliaA flush. Five hearts. Sorry, Arjun, I think the popcorn is mine.
- ArjunHang on. Can you look at that last card again?
- AmeliaIt's the seven of hearts. Oh, wait. It's a diamond, isn't it?
- ArjunI'm afraid so. So you've got a pair of sevens, and I've got three kings.
- AmeliaI could have sworn I had it. The light in here is terrible.
- ArjunNice try, though. I really thought you were going to beat me.
- AmeliaFine, you win this one. But I'm not doing the dishes.
- ArjunDeal. The loser only has to bring snacks next month.
- AmeliaSame time next month, then. And I'm sitting closer to the lamp.
Say it today
Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.