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The honeymoon is the trip a couple takes right after the wedding. It's also the safest topic at any wedding. When you're stuck next to a stranger at the reception, or you see a coworker who got married last month, the honeymoon gets people talking in seconds.

Before the trip, ask "Where are you headed for the honeymoon?" After the trip, ask "How was the honeymoon?" Both are open, friendly and never too personal. Notice that people often say "we" now: "We're going to Portugal," "We loved it." That's part of the fun of being newlyweds.

Not every couple leaves right away. Some take a short trip first, a mini-moon, and save the big one for later. Some can't get time off work. "We're postponing it" is a perfectly normal answer, and a good listener says "That's smart" rather than "Oh no."

Phrases

the vacation a couple takes after the wedding

a couple who got married very recently

the classic question before the trip

the classic question after the trip

a short trip right after the wedding

you're moving the trip to a later date

you can't choose between two options

a resort price that includes food and drinks

stop thinking about work and relax completely

a trip you'll probably only take once

the trip was wonderful

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