Words to know
wearing clothes that are too formal for the situation
there are no rules about something
understand the mood of the people around you
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Practice · 3 min
Shadow Marcus first. He's embarrassed but handles it with a joke, "the only one in the building", which is a good way to own a small mistake. Keep it self-aware, not ashamed. Then take Priya's part. She teases kindly; let "It's next to the slippers" land as a friendly punch line.
- PriyaYou must be Marcus. Welcome to Austin. That's a very nice suit.
- MarcusThanks. I'm guessing it's the only one in the building.
- PriyaIt might be. The last suit I saw here was at a wedding.
- MarcusNobody told me what to wear. I didn't want to show up looking too casual.
- PriyaThat's fair. We don't have a dress code. Pretty much anything goes.
- MarcusAnything? I saw a guy in shorts and slippers by the coffee machine.
- PriyaThat's our lead engineer. He's been wearing slippers for three years.
- MarcusSo tomorrow I can wear jeans and a T-shirt?
- PriyaSure. Most people do. Wear what you'd wear to meet a friend for lunch.
- MarcusAnd for meetings with investors?
- PriyaThat's different. On those days, people read the room and dress up a bit.
- MarcusHow much is "a bit"?
- PriyaA nice shirt, clean shoes. Actually, there's an investor visit on Thursday.
- MarcusSo I should keep this suit?
- PriyaKeep the jacket. Lose the tie. You'll look like you run the place.
- MarcusI'll take that. For today, I think I'll lose the tie already. I feel a little overdressed.
- PriyaGood choice. Come on, I'll show you your desk. It's next to the slippers.
Say it today
Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.