A manager has a quiet word with an employee who keeps arriving late to meetings. Listen for what's really bothering her, and for the deal they reach.
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Listen first
No text yet. Listen for who, where and what goes wrong.
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- TylerText hidden. Listen first.
- ManagerText hidden. Listen first.
- TylerText hidden. Listen first.
- ManagerText hidden. Listen first.
- TylerText hidden. Listen first.
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Practice · 3 min
Record the manager's line "I'm not trying to make a big deal of it. I'd like us to find a fix." Then compare it with the model. The first sentence lowers the temperature and the second moves to solutions. It's a useful pair any time you need to raise a problem with someone you'll keep working with.
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Say it today
Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.