Meaning

"You know better than that" is a gentle but clear criticism. It means "you're smart enough, or experienced enough, not to do this, so why did you?" There is a compliment hidden in it: the speaker believes you have good judgment. That's why parents and teachers use it; it scolds and trusts you at the same time. A close cousin is "know better than to" plus a verb: "She knows better than to argue with the referee."

It is informal and warm, but it points down a little, from someone who feels wiser. From a parent, a mentor or an old friend, it's fine. From a coworker at your level, it can sound like a lecture. Aimed at yourself, it's a common and honest admission: "I should have known better."

In a conversation

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Say it out loud

Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.

Check yourself

1Aiko says "You know better than that." What does she mean?
2"I should have known better." What is the speaker doing?

Practice · 3 min

Listen, then repeat. The stress falls on "better". Keep the tone warm, not angry.

Say it today

Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.