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Every conversation starts with the same thirty seconds, so these are the phrases you will say more than any others in your life. There are three levels: the neutral ones that work anywhere, the friendly ones for people you know, and the careful ones for a first meeting or a formal setting. Pick one from each group and make it yours.
The replies matter as much as the openers. "How are you?" is not really a question; a long honest answer surprises people. "Good, thanks. You?" is the whole expected exchange.
Phrases
the two neutral openers; "hi" is a touch warmer, "hello" a touch more careful
time-of-day greetings; fine with strangers, colleagues and shopkeepers
the standard follow-up; expect a short answer, give a short answer
the relaxed version of "how are you", for people you see often
friendly and a little warmer than "how are you"
the reply that ends the ritual and hands it back
a relaxed reply that means "fine"
for the first meeting only; never say it to someone you already know
for someone you have met before
a light, friendly line when you haven't met for months
very casual, mostly young people and close friends; the answer is "not much"
Say it out loud
Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.
Practice · 3 min
Say the greeting that fits. Situation on the left, one natural line on the right.
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Say it today
Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.