The pattern

"Are you trying to" plus a verb asks what someone is attempting. With a helpful tone, it offers assistance: "Are you trying to find the exit?" With a surprised or annoyed tone, it questions their intention: "Are you trying to make me laugh?" or "Are you trying to start a fight?" The words are the same; the voice decides.

The helpful version is gold for travelers and newcomers. When someone looks lost, "Are you trying to get somewhere?" opens the door without assuming they need help. The sharp version is useful too, but keep it for people who know you.

Say it out loud

Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.

  5. Playful. Said with a smile when someone is being funny.

  6. Asks what someone is hinting at.

  7. Sharp. Only when you mean it.

  10. Softens a firm message: I know this sounds harsh.

Check yourself

1A tourist looks at a map, confused. Which line offers help?
2What does "Are you trying to tell me something?" ask?
3What does "I'm not trying to be rude, but..." do?

Practice · 3 min

Ask what someone is attempting. Prompt on the left, one natural sentence on the right.

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Say it today

Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.