The pattern

"Can I" plus a verb asks permission. "Can I sit here?" "Can I borrow your pen?" It is the everyday way to ask for something small, and it works with friends, colleagues and strangers alike. "May I" exists and is more formal, but in American conversation "Can I" is what almost everyone says, even to a manager.

The pattern also offers help, depending on the verb. "Can I help you?" is the shop assistant's first line. "Can I get you anything?" is the host's. Same frame, and the listener knows from the verb whether you are asking or giving.

Say it out loud

Tap a sentence to hear it. Say it after the voice.

  1. An offer, not a request. The shop, the office, the stranger who looks lost.

  2. "Can I just say" introduces a compliment or an opinion. It is not really asking permission.

Check yourself

1Which is the everyday way to ask permission in American English?
2Which "Can I" line is an offer rather than a request?
3What does "Can I just say..." usually introduce?

Practice · 3 min

Ask permission or offer help. Prompt on the left, one natural sentence on the right.

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Say it today

Use it once in a real conversation before tomorrow. Out loud counts, even to yourself.